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Divorce is painful — anyone who has been through the process will attest to that. But, sometimes, divorce is less painful than staying in a relationship that has become abusive.

The problem, of course, is that it’s exponentially more difficult for women in abusive relationships to break free from their controlling husbands. Typically, these women know very little about their family finances because their husbands are extremely secretive about financial matters. Plus, many women are simply frozen with fear. Women in abusive marriages live under the very real threat of physical violence if their husbands get angry and/or suspicious

If you are in an abusive relationship, please seek help. There are community-based organizations, private counselors and therapists and other professionals who can offer the immediate assistance you need. In addition, please start taking steps to secure your financial well-being.

via Jeffrey A. Landers: Seven Steps to Protect Your Assets When Leaving an Abusive Marriage.