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You may have heard the old joke about a couple in their 90s filing for divorce. When the judge asks them, “Why did you wait so long?” they respond, “We wanted to wait until the kids were dead.”

In fact the only time divorce is not going to hurt your children is when they are dead. There’s a myth that adult children can handle their parents’ divorce and aren’t hurt by it. In fact, adult children may very well be devastated by their parents divorce. They not only have to deal with the pain of their divorce, but the assumption that it shouldn’t bother them. Grownups are supposed to be just that–grown up–not dependent on their families. But, especially today, young people depend on their families throughout their young adulthood, for money, advice, a place they can call home, basically a net they can fall into when life knocks them off the tightrope.

via Erica Manfred: The Kids Are Never Grown.