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Co-parenting a child is no small feat when a couple is together, let alone when they are not.  An excellent article on co-parenting can be found here.  The author, Brette Sember is a former family law attorney and mediator and has authored several books on divorce and child custody. 

She recommends the following 8 Cardinal Rules of Co-Parenting:

In order for co-parenting to succeed, there are some important rules that all co-parents should follow:

1. Do not use your child as a go-between.

2. Do not discuss your feelings about the other parent with your child.

3. Always remember that your child needs time with both of you to grow up healthy and happy.

4. If possible, never argue in front of your child.

5. Be flexible whenever possible.

6. Think of parenting time as benefiting your child, not you or the other parent.

7. Envision yourself and the other parent as a team.

8. If you are the residential parent, include the other parent as much as possible.